Philosophy: Falling in Love
Posted by mE on Jul 11, 2008When it comes to love, you need not to fall but rather surrender. Surrender to the idea that you must love yourself before you can love another.
You must absolutely trust yourself before you can absolutely trust another and most importantly you must accept your flaws before you can accept the flaws of another.
None of us is perfect; no matter how complete the image may look. Is the mutual trust and then the trust on one’s ownself, in your opinion, is strong enough to uproot the inner desolation? Does it really strengthens or is it just a fad.
In my opinion, it can. Trust and love. Don’t take all matters in your hand - leave a few things to Allah Almighty too. But don’t surrender to every thing either. At least take your due steps.
In the line of love and trust; we live!
^^ Yah may nay kaha hay abhi abhi 
Quote forwarded by a friend kid … ~
July 11th, 2008 at 4:32 am
I leave everything to the Almighty now, after having tried all that I could think of and failed. I have accepted my flaws, you see!
July 11th, 2008 at 1:41 pm
To neggate yourself is philosophy to fall in love
July 11th, 2008 at 3:48 pm
???
July 12th, 2008 at 3:47 am
I still believe…you can control falling in love…if you dont want to fall in love…you will just not fall in love..and if you want to…you can at the next minute…
But the philosophy…does make sense…Its another leaf in the jungle..called Love…
July 12th, 2008 at 3:58 am
“In the line of Love and Trust, We live” ……. WOW !!!
Absolutely L O V E L Y
July 12th, 2008 at 4:04 am
and what if you do whatever you can to make things happens but still nothing happens? what if you leave few things on Allah & don’t even give up still things don’t work out?
yes i have done that but still i don’t things are going to work..whats next? what should i do hmm?
July 12th, 2008 at 7:05 am
I think in love, OTHER comes first…if you love yourself first then you can not love other.
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Love is like black hole, pulls you with immense force, the idea of surrender does not exist as you do not have any control…you just fall in it…(and keep falling….till you are doomed
July 12th, 2008 at 8:00 pm
I second UTP “Its another leaf in the jungle..called Love…” - its such a multi-faceted thing that you cant be definite about anything related to it..
July 12th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
Great blog, subscribed to your rss feed. Thanks.
July 12th, 2008 at 11:46 pm
2 complicated
July 12th, 2008 at 11:52 pm
Hey, why did you scratch friend out!
July 13th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
kafi bari bari batein nahin kehnay lag gaye hain aap aaj kal:)
July 14th, 2008 at 3:08 pm
Such a professional tone
July 14th, 2008 at 11:15 pm
Yeah, sure!
July 15th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
care to reply?
you don’t want to give the answer or you don’t have any answer eh?
July 17th, 2008 at 4:04 pm
It works both ways .. Sometimes, trusting someone teaches you to trust on yourself. Loving someone makes you fall in love with yourself. haha its kinda fire that lightens you up n then burns!
July 19th, 2008 at 8:34 pm
Sidhusaaheb acceptance is a key milestone
aashely But I don’t believe in losing self-respect to fall in love, either
Do you?
SAWJ
UTP Ah ha … I somewhat agree to the theory. We do have certain control bar there, though at times we love to forget that … Good point ~~
Maryam Thanks dear … I feel so proud too to write this
An ILLuS|On what if you leave few things on Allah & don’t even give up still things don’t work out?
Unconsciously then we are waiting or things to turn out the way WE want them … not in Allah’s way. Leave means LEAVE and forget. There are 1001 issues that needs some solutions in our life … why not turn towards them?
Zios AT times we are not sure if what we are going through is actually Love
Kamran Ditto that
PA Thanks & warm welcomes
July 19th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
Zeee =P
Absar And I wrote KID … that matters =P
Unaiza Haan ji bas kabhi kabhi
Umemoo OMG kasmay? **Shrugs @ the thought*
Shuaib Hay naa … I bet you are sure about it
An ILLuS|On Ive zillions of answers
Rashid I see you are enjoying yourself at the thought
July 19th, 2008 at 9:04 pm
ahaan..give me some!
July 22nd, 2008 at 3:17 am
Allah is there always to help us but as always said Unless u dont try to help urself!!
July 22nd, 2008 at 9:51 am
An ILLuS|On =)) APni aqal larao khali dikhaway pay na jao
Nikki Exactly
July 22nd, 2008 at 9:41 pm
in other words it says…No glimpse of ego but ego and self respect two separate trait..
July 23rd, 2008 at 4:37 pm
Oh yeah ego doesn’t let you go anywhere but self-respect’s a must
August 2nd, 2008 at 2:59 pm
Nice thoughts……… and this topic made me gloomy ………. again
August 4th, 2008 at 11:25 am
ooops