Philosophy: Falling in Love
When it comes to love, you need not to fall but rather surrender. Surrender to the idea that you must love yourself before you can love another.
You must absolutely trust yourself before you can absolutely trust another and most importantly you must accept your flaws before you can accept the flaws of another.
None of us is perfect; no matter how complete the image may look. Is the mutual trust and then the trust on one’s ownself, in your opinion, is strong enough to uproot the inner desolation? Does it really strengthens or is it just a fad.
In my opinion, it can. Trust and love. Don’t take all matters in your hand – leave a few things to Allah Almighty too. But don’t surrender to every thing either. At least take your due steps.
In the line of love and trust; we live!
^^ Yah may nay kaha hay abhi abhi 
Quote forwarded by a friend kid … ~
I leave everything to the Almighty now, after having tried all that I could think of and failed. I have accepted my flaws, you see!
To neggate yourself is philosophy to fall in love
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I still believe…you can control falling in love…if you dont want to fall in love…you will just not fall in love..and if you want to…you can at the next minute…
But the philosophy…does make sense…Its another leaf in the jungle..called Love…
“In the line of Love and Trust, We live” ……. WOW !!!
Absolutely L O V E L Y
and what if you do whatever you can to make things happens but still nothing happens? what if you leave few things on Allah & don’t even give up still things don’t work out?
yes i have done that but still i don’t things are going to work..whats next? what should i do hmm?
I think in love, OTHER comes first…if you love yourself first then you can not love other.
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Love is like black hole, pulls you with immense force, the idea of surrender does not exist as you do not have any control…you just fall in it…(and keep falling….till you are doomed
I second UTP “Its another leaf in the jungle..called Love…” – its such a multi-faceted thing that you cant be definite about anything related to it..
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Hey, why did you scratch friend out!
kafi bari bari batein nahin kehnay lag gaye hain aap aaj kal:)
Such a professional tone
Yeah, sure!
care to reply?
you don’t want to give the answer or you don’t have any answer eh?
It works both ways .. Sometimes, trusting someone teaches you to trust on yourself. Loving someone makes you fall in love with yourself. haha its kinda fire that lightens you up n then burns!
Sidhusaaheb acceptance is a key milestone
aashely But I don’t believe in losing self-respect to fall in love, either
Do you?
SAWJ
UTP Ah ha … I somewhat agree to the theory. We do have certain control bar there, though at times we love to forget that … Good point ~~
Maryam Thanks dear … I feel so proud too to write this
An ILLuS|On what if you leave few things on Allah & don’t even give up still things don’t work out?
Unconsciously then we are waiting or things to turn out the way WE want them … not in Allah’s way. Leave means LEAVE and forget. There are 1001 issues that needs some solutions in our life … why not turn towards them?
Zios AT times we are not sure if what we are going through is actually Love
Kamran Ditto that
PA Thanks & warm welcomes
Zeee =P
Absar And I wrote KID … that matters =P
Unaiza Haan ji bas kabhi kabhi
Umemoo OMG kasmay? **Shrugs @ the thought*
Shuaib Hay naa … I bet you are sure about it
An ILLuS|On Ive zillions of answers
Rashid I see you are enjoying yourself at the thought
ahaan..give me some!
Allah is there always to help us but as always said Unless u dont try to help urself!!
An ILLuS|On =)) APni aqal larao khali dikhaway pay na jao
Nikki Exactly
in other words it says…No glimpse of ego but ego and self respect two separate trait..
Oh yeah ego doesn’t let you go anywhere but self-respect’s a must
Nice thoughts……… and this topic made me gloomy ………. again
ooops